On Thursday, Sept. 3, 2026, OHIO YAB Youth Ambassador Raven Grice's article was published in a Table Sense publication.
Housing: How it’s All Connected
Transitioning from foster care to adulthood is a significant period of change for young people ages 17-21. Transitioning out can be scary, frustrating, and bring up many different emotions and traumas for young adults. Youth aging out of foster care are expected to take on adult responsibilities while simultaneously navigating education, employment, finances, relationships, healthcare, and housing. Although these areas are sometimes taught as separate independent living skills, they are connected. Successful adulthood is not simply about being able to live independently without assistance. It is also about knowing how to use relationships, community resources, mentors, and support systems to create stability. This concept can be described as interdependent living.
Interdependent living demonstrates how housing can serve as the center that connects the key areas of a youth's life. The model places housing at the core of interdependence and surrounds it with relationships, planning, mentoring, education, workforce development, health, vital records, food security, budgeting, and assessments. These areas represent the skills and supports that help a young person obtain housing, maintain housing, and build a stable life after foster care.
For youth aging out of foster care, housing is more than having a physical place to sleep. Stable housing provides a foundation from which young people can pursue education, employment, relationships, health care, financial stability, and long-term goals. At the same time, these other areas directly affect whether a young person can successfully maintain housing. Therefore, independent living skills and interdependent living are connected through housing.
Independent Living Skills and the Transition to Adulthood
Independent living skills are the practical abilities young people need to manage the responsibilities of adulthood. These skills may include budgeting, cooking, cleaning, personal hygiene, transportation, employment, communication, decision-making, and obtaining important documents. For housing, this means understanding a lease, reviewing it with a caseworker, knowing what questions to ask a landlord, scheduling tours, and identifying key lease portions. For youth in foster care, independent living preparation is particularly important because many young people may have fewer opportunities to practice these skills within a consistent family environment. However, knowing how to perform a skill does not always translate to being able to apply it effectively in real-life situations or navigate the challenges that come with it.
This is where interdependent living becomes important: successful adulthood is not about doing everything alone but knowing when and where to ask for help. For youth transitioning out of care, this also means recognizing that they have agency in deciding who they include in their lives and consider chosen family.
Housing as the Center of Interdependent Living
Housing is at the center of successful independent living for foster youth aging out of care, providing the stability needed to maintain employment, pursue education, manage health, and build positive relationships. A safe, consistent home also gives youth who have experienced out-of-home care the opportunity to develop essential life skills. For former foster youth, stable housing can be especially important in avoiding the stress and retraumatization that can come with housing instability. Ultimately, housing is both a foundation for independence and a key part of helping young adults build the skills and stability they need to thrive.
Relationships and Supportive Connections
Strong relationships are an essential part of stable housing, especially for youth aging out of foster care. Supportive connections can provide the guidance and encouragement young adults need as they navigate housing and other responsibilities of independence. Youth who have experienced out-of-home care need a supportive safety net more than peers their age.
Assessments and Individualized Skill Development
Assessments such as life skills assessments help identify a young person’s strengths, needs, and areas where additional support may be needed. By avoiding assumptions and recognizing that every youth is unique, assessments can help professionals create individualized goals and focus support where it will have the greatest impact.
Budgeting and Financial Stability
Budgeting is important for housing stability because young adults must manage more than just rent, including utilities, food, transportation, and more. Learning financial skills such as saving, tracking spending, prioritizing needs, and preparing for unexpected expenses can help reduce the risk of housing instability. Youth may also need support accessing benefits, housing programs, and other resources that can strengthen their financial stability.
Food Security
Housing stability also depends on having consistent access to food. Youth who have experienced out-of-home care suffer more trauma than their peers from not having their needs met, and thus need more support developing skills like meal planning, grocery shopping, cooking, and budgeting, while also learning how to access community resources when needed. Seeking assistance through food pantries and other programs is an important part of independence.
Vital Records and Documentation
Access to important documents, such as identification cards, birth certificates, and Social Security records, is essential for securing housing, employment, education, and other services. Youth aging out of foster care may not always have access to these documents and may need support obtaining, replacing, and maintaining them.
Education and Workforce Development
Employment and education are connected to long-term housing stability. Reliable income helps young people obtain and maintain housing, while workforce development can build job skills, support career planning, and connect youth to employment opportunities. Education, vocational training, and certifications can increase earning potential and provide temporary housing options such as dorms. Housing, education, and employment form a cycle: stable housing supports success in school and work, while education and employment create greater opportunities to secure and maintain stable housing.
Health and Wellness
Health is another critical component of housing. Physical and mental health can directly affect a young person's ability to maintain employment, attend school, manage finances, and care for a household. Youth aging out of foster care may need to learn how to schedule appointments, communicate with health-care providers, understand medications or health instructions, and identify community health resources. Mental and emotional wellness is equally important because stress associated with housing, finances, employment, and relationships can affect overall functioning.
Interdependent living encourages young people to recognize when they need assistance and identify appropriate sources of support. This may include health professionals, counselors, mentors, trusted adults, or community organizations.
Mentoring and Skill Transfer
Mentors help youth apply independent living skills in everyday situations by offering guidance, problem-solving support, and encouragement. For young people aging out of foster care, consistent mentors can provide stability while helping them navigate housing, budgeting, and other adult responsibilities.
The Connection Between Independent and Interdependent Living
Independent and interdependent living should not be viewed as opposites. Independent living means having the skills and confidence to manage one's life. Interdependent living recognizes that successful adults also rely on relationships, systems, resources, and communities.
For example, consider a young person who is preparing to move into their first apartment. Independent living skills might include knowing how to:
- Create and follow a budget
- Prepare meals
- Clean and maintain the apartment
- Pay bills
- Communicate with a landlord
- Use public transportation
- Maintain employment
- Schedule appointments
- Keep important documents organized
Interdependent living adds another layer. The young person also needs to know:
- Who they can call when they have a problem
- Where to find housing assistance
- How to access food resources
- How to locate employment services
- Where to obtain replacement documents
- How to identify community health resources
- How to maintain healthy relationships
- When to ask for help
- How to advocate for themselves
Together, these skills create a stronger foundation for adulthood.
Life skills assessments and emancipation or transition plans can also be used together to identify areas of strength and areas where additional practice is needed. The goal should not simply be to prepare youth to leave foster care. The goal should be to prepare them to remain stable after leaving foster care.
Conclusion
Interdependent living demonstrates that housing is not an isolated need for youth aging out of foster care, but part of a larger system of relationships, resources, education, employment, health, and support. While independent living skills help young people navigate adulthood, interdependent living recognizes that everyone relies on relationships, communities, mentors, and resources. Preparing youth for adulthood should not mean expecting them to do everything alone, but rather helping them build the skills, confidence, connections, and support networks needed to create and sustain a stable life.






























